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    Is there a chance for someone like me?

    Hi forum, I decided to join here and it took me a lot of courage to decide talking about my problem.
    I'm a 24 year old male employee with few interests, but never been in a relationship and i feel guilty thinking about it. You may ask why.. Although I'm not a bad person, i always believe that women will think I'm bad. I felt embarrassed to talk to a doctor about my problem.
    And the problem is "arousal" (can't say it another way), still not sure if its mental or physical or maybe both, it started to develop when i was 17. And later on I got involved with hundreds of legal prostitutes and even a few porn stars.
    Just because I need sex more than 15 times a day/ spend 6 hours at least on it/ ready 24-7, I'm afraid my future woman (if there will be one) would think I'm a sick person as in evil and perverted, but I'm not. I'd really be happy to be with one women my entire life if she accepts the way i am.
    So is there a chance for someone with my history?
    I need honest answers, I can't go on like this the rest of my life.
    thank you

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    All right, right off the bat-talk to a doctor or a therapist. It's completely normal to have a high sex drive... but yours is somewhere in the neighborhood of Jupiter. It's great that you'd be satisfied with one woman all of your life but having sex 15 times a day with the same woman for the next... well, lifetime... is going to be draining if not for you, then for her. Do I think there is a woman who can accept that you have a high sex drive? Yes I do, and I don't think all women consider it evil. I don't. But at your rate, it is slightly... inconvenient.

    The "hundreds" of legal prostitutes might throw a girl off... not because she's a prude, but because STDs and past hang-ups can become a serious concern. Before you begin searching for Ms. Right, make sure you are rock-solid emotionally, mentally, and physically. Talk to a doctor, talk to a therapist, and in the future, maybe be willing to compromise on the amount of sex per day...

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    Vertical, you're feeding the trolls. Nom nom nom.

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