How do you get over someone you no longer talk to, when it was neither one's fault?

[Jonathanese]

There was a friend of mine, I thought she was interested in me, and I became interested in her.

I was able to tell her how i felt, but that I valued our friendship still more. She said she wasn't interested and wanted to stay friends. We agreed to meet up to ease any of the tension caused by my revelation.

Before we met up, however, A friend of hers started telling her close friends I was some sort of predator, stalking this girl. According to a friend, the girl spreading the rumors acts out of jealousy. After recieving threats and being shoved around, I got security involved.

Now, the friend of mine doesn't talk to me. I didn't even screw anything up, neither did she. There were a much larger, more damaging series of events. but that sums it up basically.

How do I get over a girl who I don't think dislikes me, but who I can't communicate with?

[MerryH]

This is the same weird story you keep referring to in your other posts, right?

Will you just spill it already and tell us exactly what happened?

[Boisdevie]

Find another girl and **** her brains out - worked for me