Hey, just confused by my current situation...
I work with a girl who I have been friends with for quite awhile. We go out for drinks often and have done various day time activities. Nothing really romantic has happened, however, a couple weeks ago we hooked up. We were laying next to each other and she was grinding into me and I tried to kiss her, but she didn't go for it. No words were exchanged, but we essentially skipped over first base and went straight to second. At one point, (we know each other really well as friends) we stopped for a second and said, well, this is weird. Anyway, we went back to bed, and sometime later in the middle of the night she was on me again and once again, no kissing, but other bases were explored.
Anyway, I like this girl, and I have had a small crush on her for quite awhile, but I decided not to put too much stock in the situation and played it cool. We haven't mentioned it at work to anyone and we haven't really talked about it either.
The other night we hung out, but it seemed like the night was winding down early and so we parted ways around 10. A few hours later, before I went to bed, I got a text from her asking if I wanted to sleep over. Once again, we never kissed but I know she climaxed a couple times.
What is the deal?
I know she has been in a pretty terrible relationship in the past, but it seems like that was quite awhile ago. I feel like every other girl I've hooked up with, relationship/one night stand/whatever, has always started with kissing.