So, ive known him for about a year, and we have regular sex once a week for about six months. The deal was no feelings. I told him that i would dump him if it would come to that, and he said the same thing. So now im screwed! Totally in love, but i ve been hiding it well. Want to know if he might be doing the same thing.
Both of us are very, very proud, and I would personally chew my own arm off before I admit to any feelings. I suspect he has feelings for me to, but I might just be looking for signs, because I hope he is.
He is very convinced I don`t have any feelings for him, and says he doesn`t have feelings for me. He is a chicken though.
Signs he doesn`t like me: never calls me, sometimes doesn`t talk to me at all. We seldom just hang out. He is not good with taking initiative. Calls and text are usually work-related. Doesn`t sit next to me. Leaves work without saying goodbye. Doesn`t defend me when someone is being mean to me.
Signs he does: very cuddly, says he will be there for me, and that I can trust him. I`m constantly feeling his eyes on me. He says im special, not like other girls. When I need him, hes always there for me. Kisses me passionately. Would say things like "I wonder if my mother would like you" or "don`t leave". About other boys dating me he will say "I want to burn down their houses..Just kidding". He loves helping me with things.
What is uuuuup? Should I dump him if he doesn`t have feelings.