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    Quote Originally Posted by Raze View Post
    Am I seriously the only guy here who likes loud moaning from a girl when it comes to sex?
    nope. *raises hand into the air*

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    What is it with men and dirty talk? Do they expect us to reciprocate? I mean, I don't care if THEY do it, but I don't want to. Is that bad? (For the record, I am pretty sure I make it clear when I am enjoying myself without acting like a porn star.)
    It makes us feel like we're dominating. Hahahaha. Mainly we're just looking for "yes" "so good" "please" and we're happy. It's more that we can get away with it. I use to **** a girl that would tell me she was mine and I owned her. That helped a bit.

    And no, I do like loud moaning if it's realistic and not constant. I don't like screaming.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    What is it with men and dirty talk? Do they expect us to reciprocate? I mean, I don't care if THEY do it, but I don't want to. Is that bad? (For the record, I am pretty sure I make it clear when I am enjoying myself without acting like a porn star.)
    No, Vashti. This is not bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi View Post
    It makes us feel like we're dominating. Hahahaha. Mainly we're just looking for "yes" "so good" "please" and we're happy. It's more that we can get away with it. I use to **** a girl that would tell me she was mine and I owned her. That helped a bit.
    Please? Oh, jeezus. As for the rest - how did you stop yourself from laughing? Because that is usually the reaction I am inclined to have when I hear stuff like that.
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    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Meh, neither are my idea of dirty talk, but I agree that it's distracting during sex.

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    I love dirty talk. I always talk dirty to my gf and she talks dirty to me. I love it!
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    I can tell you this, when you're with a loud and verbal partner, break up, start dating another woman who is the exact opposite, you sort of wonder if you're performing to her satisfaction...I like a little audible confirmation. If I had to choose between crazy loud and dead silent...I'll put earplugs in and keep working . . .

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Please? Oh, jeezus. As for the rest - how did you stop yourself from laughing? Because that is usually the reaction I am inclined to have when I hear stuff like that.
    Oh my gosh.. I totally forgot about this, I actually did start laughing one time! She was talking dirty and said something kinda weird, at first I just sorta smiled, then I chuckled. And when my gf kinda paused, I just burst out laughing and couldn't stop!

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    Once after watching Couples Retreat, my gf and I were having sex and there was one moment where I couldn't resist...I said, "Boom." We both lost it...

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    ^^ I LMFAO'd
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Please? Oh, jeezus. As for the rest - how did you stop yourself from laughing? Because that is usually the reaction I am inclined to have when I hear stuff like that.
    Actually, I did laugh the second time. I also laughed when I broke up with her because I thought about how crazy immature and needy she was and that was a reflection of it.

    I guess I should have added this asterik, I meant to. *Dirty talk helps when the sex is otherwise awful.

    When I'm ****ing a chick and she's terrible, at least when I talk dirty to her I feel more powerful/dominant/like a selfish asshole/whatever and it gets me off faster. Seriously. LOL.

    Also, the boom thing is ridiculously funny. Nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raze View Post
    Am I seriously the only guy here who likes loud moaning from a girl when it comes to sex?
    Nah, I like a girl to be loud too but not consistently. If she's loud the entire time I assume she's faking it at one point or another.

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    I've never slept with a screamer. I did sleep with my GF during the afternoon at the weekend whilst her kids had a little sleep so we had to be quiet - found it quite erotic.

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    scream real loud

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    I don't like dirty talk either. I find it distracting, especially when he wants a physical reaction from me, and not verbal. I may whisper yes, but that's about it. I mostly go from quiet moaning and gasping, to nearly shouting. Depending on how good the guy is.

    Now with guys, I like them mostly quiet. They get too loud, it just turns me off. Nice soft grunts and groans are fine. And another thing, I hate it when they want eye contact when they're about to blow a load. Look dude, a man having an orgasm is not the prettiest thing to watch.

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