I already posted this but i want a womans thoughts on what is going through this girl's head
So this past new years eve I was invited by a girl I went to school with since 2nd grade to go out to a club in the city. We were never really friends back then, more like just two kids who went to a very small catholic school. We graduated 8th grade and went our seperate ways. About 2 summers ago, I re-established contact with her through another friend we used to go to school with (they went to the same high school and are good friends).. We went to the beach one or two times as a group and I really didnt have any feelings for her. I am 20 now and a junior in college. I got her number a few months ago and we exchanged very few messages. I hung out with her a few times with our mutual friends and she is a great person to be with, I get very nervous around girls because i am shy but i have to say i feel very relaxed around her and enjoy her company. I know she thinks i am cute because my friend told me this. she is kind of a nerdy punk snowboarder girl fun to be around doesnt complain alot and i feel really comfortable around her
So here is my problem. She has had a boyfriend for a while, maybe a year or less Im not sure. He lives far away and they know each other from college. i think hes a tool because he wears emo clothes and white v neck tees that are too small. Her girlfriend and BF were going to the club with us and another guy we are friends with. when she invited me via text i was unsure if i wanted to go. she persisted that she would be the third wheel and i should come"be a bad dancer with me".i was at work and busy and made it seem a bit reluctant to go but finally agreed.
So I show up at her house to pregame before we took the train in and she looks prettier than Ive ever seen her before. we all drank alot and went to the club. We were having a good time dancing to the electro club music and started hooking up on the dance floor. she said dont say anything but it was a good long kiss. Her friend saw and when we were walking out of the club and was callin her a cheater kind of playfully and didnt really have much of a reaction that i could gauge. she wore my sweatshirt from the time we left the club until she went to bed. in my drunken stupor i slept on her bed because she said someone could sleep in her bed and on the couches.. thought about trying something but her bf was texting her and calling about something and i felt guilty because i told myself not to try anything because i knew i would and decided it was best not to do anything because we were so drunk.
we went snowboarding yesterday. i texted her today saying thanks for inviting me out and to thank her parents for their hospitality. she replied letting me know she is having a party near my town in a week
What is going on in this girl's mind? does she like me? is she unhappy with her current bf?