Hello community,
I am an engaged teenager with fears and doubts. I've known my fiancee for just over a year, and been engaged for about half that, and our relationship was once passionate and sweet and generally joyous, but now were both easily irritated and we don't understand each other sometimes. Sometimes I feel like we are perfectly in sync and operate on the same wavelength; on other days I feel like were trying to fit a round peg into a square hole not quite big enough, meaning she misunderstands me and I misunderstand her and we both get angry over little things more and more, it feels like. Are these nonadhesive times anything to worry about, or are they normal for two co-dependent teenagers with different work schedules (she works in the morning and I work at night).