Anal sex revisited

[ashley89]

Of course it hurt! I'm surprised your ass is still intact! Were you at least drunk? How do you justify this?

a little bit! there is no justification for this stupid action of mine. I think I broke my butt and I can't walk

[Kaius]

Aw no!!!!! Don't say that! You're supposed to say it's the best feeling ever!!!! Maybe the guy's penis was too wide. Or maybe the position was awkward.
Did you do it bareback or with condom? If with condom, why isn't it lubed? I think you should practice some more. Try it with different size men,
and marry the one you feel best with.

[Junket]

a little bit! there is no justification for this stupid action of mine. I think I broke my butt and I can't walk

Anal sex wasn't the poor decision you made, the lack of lube was.

[ashley89]

Aw no!!!!! Don't say that! You're supposed to say it's the best feeling ever!!!! Maybe the guy's penis was too wide. Or maybe the position was awkward.
Did you do it bareback or with condom? If with condom, why isn't it lubed? I think you should practice some more. Try it with different size men,
and marry the one you feel best with.

his dick was huge! and we did it bareback. the no lube thing was stupid, but it wasn't planned ahead of time or anything. it took awhile to get it in and I don't know why it happened but it just did, next time if there ever is a next time, I'll make sure to use some hahaha

[Luckylooch]

i like me some anal

[sookie6]

Try it with different size men,
and marry the one you feel best with.

kaius, i hope you're joking because I really think you are marrying your current fiancee because of her sexual performances...at least that's what transpires from your posts...

If I were you I would go for a prenup because I sense that she will be less enthusiastic once married.

[sookie6]

I know, it just kinda happened... it took some time, and it just hurt, and was bad... don't know if I'd go there again LOL

Unfortunately this is what happens when you get involve in a sexual act for the one and only benefit of the other person...you should really enjoy it while doing it otherwise STOP IT..;sex is a 2 way street...it is fantastic and exciting when both partners are aroused but a turn off when one is in pain...

Not all women are going to enjoy anal sex...and maybe with lube it would not even be your things either...respect yourself and get your partner to respect you by defining your limits...

[Kaius]

kaius, i hope you're joking because I really think you are marrying your current fiancee because of her sexual performances...at least that's what transpires from your posts...

If I were you I would go for a prenup because I sense that she will be less enthusiastic once married.

No I'm not marrying a woman purely for sex. There are certainly other options than marriage.
We really enjoy being with each other, and we have that connection. We have both been previously married
for over a decade, so we know what we are looking for. I would love to have anal at some point.

[ashley89]

No I'm not marrying a woman purely for sex. There are certainly other options than marriage.
We really enjoy being with each other, and we have that connection. We have both been previously married
for over a decade, so we know what we are looking for. I would love to have anal at some point.

I thought you've had anal before? did your fiance get over her flu yet?

[Kaius]

I thought you've had anal before? did your fiance get over her flu yet?

Ah good point. I have had anal with my exs before, but that was a long time ago.
I want to have anal with my fiancee, but I feel she is really reluctant, so I have told her
let's hold off till later. I don't want any stress in our relationship over butt sex.

[ashley89]

that's good. when she is ready she'll tell you!

[Junket]

that's good. when she is ready she'll tell you!

Haha, no she won't.

[DCbob]

Be careful, what if your guy reads this, decides it's worth getting anal with you, and then discovers he's gay and calls off the wedding? Oh. Oh it could happen.

turnabout is fair play LOL!!!

my wife and i are both anal-virgins. neither has any interest in trying. but go for it if is what you BOTH want.

[x480barbiex]

Where I'm from we refer to that as rape.

But if your really in love with someone your willing to give everything to your partner. The goal to a healthy relationship try to fulfill all your partners fantasy, wants, needs. And you two will have a great relationship.

[girl68]

^ LOL no, sorry kiddo healthy relationships are not about fulfilling fantasies...