Why Is It?

[HeartIsAching]

Why is it that half of my posts seem to be along the lines of "You want to know? Ask."

or "You want a relationship? Say so."

Is communication REALLY so hard for people to do in their relationships without playing games? I'd like some serious discussion here. I have to admit I'm a bit flummoxed. I'm not one to piss around with things, if I have something to say, I say it. I am a bit dense when it comes to subtlety, and intolerant of game playing. Enlighten me, if you would.

[Kevz]

To apply to your rhetorical question it is because many people do know they have to do what you are talking about but have too low self esteem to do it. I was once guilty of being the shy party but eventually I overcame it with maturity. If only everyone could follow such simple advice would everyone's lives be easier and so much more simpler.

[HeartIsAching]

Ok, that's a valid point. I have been accused of being very self-secure and arrogant because I speak my mind.

...And it wasn't a rhetorical question. That's why I invited discussion.