hello,
ive been divorced for over 2 yrs. i still talk to my ex wife and have seen her and her girlfriends when they have been out on the town. my ex wife has a friend and co worker that i have known for as long as she has worked with my ex wife (12yrs maybe more). i like and am very attracted to her friend (lets call her JB) very very much. i told my ex wife i wanted to go out with JB. she said that it was ok with her if i went out with JB, if JB wanted to go.
about 3 weeks have passed sence i last saw JB. then this past weekend my friend had a big superbowl party. my ex wife and JB came to the party. everything went great and we all had a great time. JB ended up comming home with me after the party and spent the night with me. when we woke up Monday morning i felt so close to her. it was a closeness i have not felt in many years. it was like we had been together for more than just that night.
when we were having our quiet time and bed talk that morning she told me that my ex had told her i wanted to go out with her. i told her how i felt about her and that i did want to take her out and spend time with her. JB seemed to be ok with that and express the same feels. the problem seems to be that she doesnt want to lose my ex wifes friendship by dating me. i dont really understand how we could be so close as if we were in love with eachother and express our feelings like we did and not try to be together.
i want to be with JB so much. i wish i knew how to over come her friendship with my ex wife. im hurting so bad inside right now, beacuse i finally feel something real for someone (JB) and cant do anything about it. i have only been with two women sence my divorce and JB was #2 in over two years. i dont cheat or want one night stands. I WANT JB!!!
i guess time will tell. if anyone has any suggestions, please feel free to reply. sorry i rambled on like i did.