A friend of mine suggested I go to my gf who just broke up with me a week ago, with a ring and ask her to marry me. That's what she wanted before she gave up because i was not able to fully realise how much she meant to me. In fact, I want to go to her parents first and ask for permission and ask for daughter's hand in marriage. That is something she always valued and i think they kinda like me.
Please tell me how much of a disaster this would be. Tell me that it definitely doesn't work because i somehow believe it's the right thing to do.
I realise being cynical is so much easier, but why can't one be straightforward about this stuff. the goal is not to cheat the system. the goal is to show my love is real and eternal.
I know there is a whole approach to this breakup stuff. Must not communicate for a while and then heal one self, and show a stronger changed person. Why can't I just be honest and say i want to marry her. And no I am not doing this to get her back. Am doing ths because I do want to do this
I just worry about it being a complete disaster, and hurting her in any way from such an extreme approach.