Hey everyone,
First up I would just like to give a big shout out to everyone, I've changed my email but a long time ago I did come to this forum for advice on how to deal with a very bad break up and I would just like to thank everyone for their input. Currently doing quite well and have now some what fully healed from that break up
Anyway the reason I have come to the forums again is to ask for some thoughts and opinions on a matter that has me quite confused at this present time, Some time ago I decided to add a few people that I know were regulars to the local club myself and brothers go too. Most of those regulars I do speak too in person except for one and this one I did not expect to accept my friend request via FB but they did.
Now I often post on this girls FB but not too much as I do not know her all that well however here is the strange thing although I have spoken to on FB we never speak in person in fact I've never spoken to her in person yet we both have similar interests. I'll give an example of what happened last night.
Before going out to the club she had asked "Are you going to the usual place tonight?" I replied yes I was and nothing more was said I get to the club and we both see each other and nothing is said. Now I'm not that built but part of my recovery period from my break up was to start working out which I have to increase my size and have a more healthy life however I know she is the type of girl that likes built guys so to speak.
Anyway at one stage a guy that I had decided to randomly talk to about the football got her attention and tried to get her to talk to me without my consent and funny out of everyone it had to be her as he was just grabbing any good looking girl! She quickly looks at me and shakes her head to say no and walks away but at the same time I did the same thing as in trying to say no I'm not interested in her.
I'm not sure how to handle this I'm interested but not too interested its more of those you see a person and you want to get to know them more, My question is she playing hard to get as in shes waiting for me to come up myself and break the ice or am I just going too far into it?
Sorry for the long post guys but I do like the help that this forum gives
Regards,
Pheo