ur advice please

[tooky]

ok me and this guy have been talking for a while going on 3 months now and i really like him and he really likes me and we wanna start something. the only problem is he's 52 and im 18. what should i do?

[misombra]

is he rich?

[val]

This is huge difference. What are your plans with him? In 52 he is still man if he lives active life, but imagine 5 years later? In this age is every year very visible.
My father is 46 and he still looks nice and is active, but i cannot imagine to have somebody that old.

[Heddy]

He's to old for you sorry. I don't think it's sick or anything i just think that it wouldn't be good for you. Y ou're at totally different stages in your lives he's past the age of wanting kids (or being able to) and maybe not now but one day you may want kids. Also he's in the age group where any time he may find out he's ill or something and if you're in a loving relationship with him then u will probably stick with him making your own life differcult. I know it's hard but you have to think about yourself and what you really want and need then look at what this guy can provide for you and what another younger guy could provide and decide which is best for you.

[ltj5253]

im sorry, but thats WAYYYYYYYYYY to old. let it go, and find someone else.

[misombra]

i agree with these guys. he is too damn old for you. shit i'm twenty six and he's too old for me. unless he's rich, in that case i might consider it.





i'm kidding people.

[shenmue]

he's 52 and you're 18. He probably doesn't have very good morals if he wants to pursue a relationship with someone your age. Get out of there. Wouldn't it be weird if your dad or uncle around that age was after an 18 year old? You get me here?

[val]

misombra: i was in half of writing post when i discovered your underline note :-)