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    would you date a girl even though she had a boyfriend?

    if you really liked a girl and knew she had a boyfriend, would you still try to date her?

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    im in exactly the same situation the girl i really like already has a boyfriend
    but anyways, to respond to your question, i would wait for it to blow over cuz thats what i'm doing, people might disagree with me but her boyfriend is HUGE.

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    As long as she is not married, she is fair game. I have stolen many girls before, including my ex-wife. Then again, they were just dating....nothing intimate.
    If a girl were hot and heavy with her boyfriend, she would be harder to steal. Even if I stole her, I would not respect her, as she would probably repeat history
    and get with someone else eventually.

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    I'm not property and can't be "stolen" but I can cheat and leave for another man.

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    I don't know I don't really think it's right! it depends how serious her relationship was with him. but just think about how you would feel if you had a girlfriend and some other dude was trying to do this with her...

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    If there is no ring on her finger, she should be free to date whoever she likes.
    Give it a go, but don't be manipulative and bag her other boyfriend. I hate it when players do that.

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    No way. If she doesn't have the courtesy to end her relationship first, then I'm not dating her! I typically don't even date girls when they are fresh out of a relationship.

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    If she is interested in dating you, she will find a way to get a "break" from her BF in order to date you.
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

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    I wouldn't and I would say the majority of young guys wouldn't either. Not all, but majority. As men get older though, I think they learn to be more bold and potentially engage in more poaching behavior.

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    Depends what you mean by dating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by salena View Post
    if you really liked a girl and knew she had a boyfriend, would you still try to date her?
    Good luck...

    If she's totally into her man, you won't stand a chance.

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    I personally would suggest you not. If the young lady has any integrity at all, she will be put off by you trying to get her to cheat. Then if this relationship falls apart, you will have blown your chance. If she doesn't have any integrity and she leaves her bf for you, you will always have to distrust her and wonder if she will leave you tomorrow. Lose/lose, man.

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    If she's willing to casually date you while still with her bf then she's not someone you'd probably want to be with. If she'll cheat on him, she'll cheat on you if someone else comes along.

    And whether or not someone is married doesn't matter. IF they're in a relationship, i think it makes you a scummy person for trying to ruin that and not respecting her relationship boundary.
    "Sometimes the best way to throw a punch is to take a step back"~Morgan freeman

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    Women are better at stealing than men are........

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    No I wouldn't

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