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Thread: Where are my feelings when im not with her :(?

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    Where are my feelings when im not with her :(?

    so me and my girlfriend have been together for 2-3 months and every time i meet her i get a burst of love in me but when im not with her i don't feel anything at all, i dont even miss her ?
    its like i feel emotionless when im not with her and it gets me sad cause when i tell her iloveyou over the phone/sms etc i want to really mean it .
    i really want her in my life.
    what should i do ?

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    Don't mean to be harsh but I think this is lust, not love. You get excited when you have it but you don't appreciate the little things such as making each other laugh perhaps? Just spending chill time together and enjoying each other's company. It sounds like more excitement that happiness. Try doing other things like even going for walks? Talk about things in common, future plans, memories of your pasts etc. See if you enjoy each other as people, then maybe you'll appreciate her more

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    Sounds a bit selfish you have to put efforts in on a lasting relationship or it will end
    Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
    Oscar Wilde

    What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
    ~ by Ralph Waldo Emerson ~

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