Originally Posted by
xxazurexx
I advised her that it wasn't a good idea and because I've been in that situation and it's hard and very difficult to be in a friendship when you are in love with that friend. She will always want MORE, than he may be prepared to give her and eventually she would start to resent the friendship and when he wasn't supplying more.
While in this friendship and for as long as she remains in love with him, she won't and can't move on either. She's stuck ....
If she feels she can have a friendship with him and without any expectation that it will lead to more, then go for it...
But I don't think ^^ that is the case.
She loves him and in her own words:
'thinks a friendship will make me love him more'
'I do feel jealous whenever I hear them around and see them around'...
IMO...this friendship would not be an advisable one nor a genuine or healthy friendship.
But at the end of the day it's her choice...