I need a male�s advice on this one. I was dating someone for a few months. I fell in love with "Andy". I never told "Andy" how I felt. He knew I cared about him and wanted more from him, but he never knew and still doesn't, the depth of my feelings. After a few months he sat me down and told me he loved spending time with me, but that he just wasn�t ready for a serious long-term relationship. He said he had had his heart broken before we started dating and that he just didn't have it in him to start over yet. Of course, I got upset and chalked the last couple months up to him just wanting to play around and "have his cake and eat it too". I cut everything off. He wasn't getting anything from me if he didn't want to give me the commitment I was looking for. I took it very personal. He broke my heart. We got along perfectly, we had great sex, mutual friends, and had so much fun together...why would he just go and throw that away? Even after I had cut "Andy" off he still tried to contact me at 3am every weekend to come over. He manages a bar and is the head bartender, so he has late nights. I ignored his late night texts and phone calls. It made me even more angry and hurt. Six weeks passed I tried to move on, knowing I was not fully ready. I started to see someone else. The new guy I am seeing is great...he is in love with me and very sweet. I got pregnant. I became pregnant the very first time the new guy and I had sex. I am 4 months pregnant now. When "Andy" found out I was pregnant he thought the baby was his. He called me and asked me to dinner. I explained to him that he didn't need to worry...I was in a new relationship and the baby was not his. He told me he would have taken responsibility for it...whatever that means. I told "Andy" I was glad this baby wasn't his because I wouldn't have wanted to be alone in this. I could tell there was some disappointment on his end. He was really searching for a reason to change his life around and move on from the bar and party scene. I looked at this dinner as closure for both of us. Instead, "Andy" kept pressing the issue of us hanging out again. He said he was available to do anything...dinner...movies...walks...whenever I wanted. I just shrugged it off and left. A month passed and I was curious and bored one day at work and I contacted �Andy�. He jumped at the invitation to see me again. He closed down the bar early and told me he would take me out to dinner anywhere I wanted to go. I met him and we talked for 4 hours. He told me how he hasn't seen or slept with anyone since me. He told me how he loved to sit and talk with me and even though hours had passed it seems like minutes to him. He heavily flirted with me the entire time and specifically asked me to not hide the fact that we were spending time together as "just friends" from my current boyfriend. That was weird I thought. I am still in love with him and I have been so tempted ever since that last encounter to take him up on his offer to hang out. I miss him. I know what the right thing to do is, but my heart keeps telling me to hold on. I don�t understand why he would chase after me now that I am pregnant with someone else�s child? Confused