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    Was gay but now attracted to women

    I'm a 26 year old guy, since I was about 15 I always thought I was gay, I've had a few gay relationships since then and been genuinely happy in them, but lately a pretty girl at work has really caught my eye, I just don't know what it is about her, today I couldn't help but stare at her cleavage and I got a h**d on, I told my family/friends that I was gay when I was 16, what the heck do I do now? am I now bisexual??? have I always been bisexual? the attraction to women has been a gradual thing over the last couple of years, but I've never acted on it due to worrying what people close to me will think, it's actually getting me down in that respect but on the other hand I find it positive that I am now attracted to women, anyone know what I could do about my situation?

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    I say go for it. Who you are attracted to is obviously natural so if you're attracted to a man today and a woman tomorrow, what's the big deal? If anyone gives you problems about it, you could just tell them that you really can't help who you like. (As Lady Gaga would say, you're born this way. Hehe) But, be completely honest with her about it. I wouldn't even say "I used to be gay", but if you two started dating and it got to the point of past relationships, I would mention that you have been with men. I mean, I could be wrong there, but you wouldn't want to hide anything from someone you liked.
    Good luck.

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    Who cares what you are?
    Do you know who you are? If so, be damned those who don't approve.

    It sounds like you're a double dipping homosexual. So what?

    What could you do about your situation? BE yourself. Whoever, whatever that is/means.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SelflessnHumble View Post
    Who cares what you are?
    Do you know who you are? If so, be damned those who don't approve.

    It sounds like you're a double dipping homosexual. So what?

    What could you do about your situation? BE yourself. Whoever, whatever that is/means.
    I pissed on all of your arguments.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    I pissed on all of your arguments.
    Ironically, I think that's the same (hidden) ingredient someone keeps spiking inside of your cornflakes EVERY morning.

    I love Walmart and Obama. Don't like it? Tough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SelflessnHumble View Post
    Ironically, I think that's the same (hidden) ingredient someone keeps spiking inside of your cornflakes EVERY morning.

    I love Walmart and Obama. Don't like it? Tough.
    What the hell are you talking about.

    Why are you always so hostile towards me?

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    This thread is a pretty good troll

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