ok so ive been dating this guy for 2 years. in the beginning we were texting 24-7, then it was slightly less than this. Due to our own obligations we were only able to see eachother around once or twice a week and we were both ok with this. However recently he got a new job and its all he seems interested in. I would see him now about once a month if even and id be lucky to hear from him once a month. I always assumed this was because he was busy with work and college and all that but i later find he has time to be out with his new work friends who he seems obsessed with. Whenever i bring up the lack of contact between us he assures me that everything is fine and that he loves me and i generally believe that. All i want him to do is put a little more effort into caring about us.Were heading off to florida for a holiday next month for a fortnight and i fear it may end badly if i cannot resolve this beforehand.
Is he just clueless about what i want from our relationship or is he just unwilling to change?