my common law husband and i were happy, or so i thought. our lives extremely intertwind, always happy, never running out of thing to say. he was my best friend, we did everything together. he helped me study for exams, and i went to all his hockey games(he was a goalie). we had a wonderful christmas together, filled with friends family and his kids and mine, i cried on christmas morning, as i was so touched and soiled by him. everyone loved him, even my mother....
back in october we had had a misscarrage, it was hard on us both eventho it was unplanned in the first place. it was something we had our hearts set on. so from there we planned to try again, just wanted to wait till i was closer to graduating, we figured from now till june we would start trying....
5 weeks ago, i got up on a monday morning, and he helped me get ready for an exam i had that day as always, he quized me....i got ready for school, he walked me out to my car and kissed me good bye, said i love you, and wished me luck on my exam.....when i returned home my kids were in awe, as they tried to break it to me as best they could before i got in the door, that he and all of his stuff are gone. he left a letter, and thats it. i haven't heard a thing since.....no call no e-mail, nothing.
i feel like he died, as i am left with no answers, just grief. panic attacks and daily melt downs is part of the daily grind....i fell like i am still trapped reliving that same day over and over......i am drownding and don't know how to escape the thoughts, i have school that i need to focus on, and i am unable to...
i need help to cope.....i can't do it alone anymore.....