So i know its not an ideal situation, but sometimes u dont really like someone or want to continue seeing them/start dating, til u have hooked up. Going into it i just saw it as casual fun n just an intense physical attraction.. but after it happened i can not get him off my mind. The sex was extremely good and the overall experience was way too intimate for a casual situation (hours of simply just talk or making out, in addition to sleeping over) and now i really like him. Yeah, im the type of person that falls fast and hard lol kind of pathetic but when i know, i just know. But ive barely heard from him since and it was 5 days ago. He invited me to his birthday party n texted me once. So i know its common for girls to get attached to a guy after sex, but i just wish i had some idea as to what is going on inside his mind without asking him n pushing him away. Is it normal for guys to distance themselves after something really intense and intimate, particularly with someone they dont know very well, n then to come back after getting sufficient amount of space? He just seems to be playing it cool and a bit hard to get.. yet still showing interest at the same time.. n i feel like he is doing it on purpose, i just wish i knew what the reason was. I have a few ideas both good n bad, but id rather get some male opinions. He got out of a long term relationship fairly recently too n even though we havent talked about it i get the sense he isnt looking for anything more than casual, if that even. I get that it was just a hookup, but from a guys perspective, what can i do to get him to keep seeing me and hopefully start dating eventually?