Is this normal?

[sadybug]

My question is is wrong that I enjoy masturbating more than sex?

Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but I would prefer to masturbate. I enjoy the closeness of sex. I even climax during sex but my climaxes are more powerful when I masturbate.

is this normal?

[smackie9]

You got it girl! But if you peak like that, a guy that knows what he is doing can also make you peak just the same. Communication is key. Your BF needs to learn how to stimulated your "G"spot to get you over the top. Just simple oral and penis penetration isn't enough. You both need to go on the net or order a book on G spot and orgasm techniques. Google "Full body orgasm" And there will be a video there that graphically show a great and simple technique that can be learned in seconds. I do not promote porn sites, but unfortunately this is the only way to access this video because of it's graphic content.

[smackie9]

BTW it is normal.....but it can be changed, but that will be up to you to teach him.

[girl68]

Yeah my orgasms are more intesnse one my own but that doesn't make them superior. I guess it's normal to have a different outcome but that's about it.

[sadybug]

thanks for your advice! i will definitely check into it!

[bubulina]

i think it's normal, maybe you can't get all what you want when you are with him and you need more.. you could try a longer foreplay and see how it goes.

or

you can also tell your BF what would you like him to do, think about what you are doing during masturbation and put him instead to do that stuff,maybe you will enjoy sex with him more.

[illicitromance]

I have no time for guilt so if you love masterbating then why not, go on girl,, on the other hand I have had to teach a few guys a thing or two and mostly its worth the extra effort.

btw i work for w_w_w.illicitromance.com

[Looq]

Girls can achieve different kinds of orgasm, direct clitoral stimulation is often the easiest way of getting the best orgasm. So it strikes me as normal. If it's causing no problems then don't worry about it. If you want your sexual experience to on par, then there are different things you can do. Why don't you get him to masturbate you during foreplay. You could masturbate yourself during sex, by leaning back while on top, or when he is taking you from behind. Websites such as [URL="http://www.estronaut.com/a/sexual_positions.htm"]this [/URL]can help.

[ItsShane]

I'm a guy, and I personally enjoy masturbating more than sex. But my reasoning behind it is because I'm into extremely kinky and taboo stuff that you pretty much only see in porn. It's hard to find a girl that is into all/most of the things that I'm into. When that one girl comes along, I'll probably never masturbate again. Until then, I'll enjoy masturbation more because it's more of a fulfillment.