There was a guy who I was seeing for a few weeks. He 'dumped' me last week saying we're too different and he didn't think it would work, which is fair enough. However, I think it was because I didn't sleep with him. He made it clear that he wanted us to sleep together after a week and only two dates, I told him I'd rather wait to get to know him better. Despite this, he still brought up sex a lot and teased me for being a 'good girl'.
when he 'dumped' me, I told him I understand and had doubts too and wished him well. I did not intend on contacting him again or expect him to contact me again. Yesterday I got a random text from him asking how I am. we had a little conversation and he started saying how he was missing me and he was wrong and that opposites attract. I continued the conversation as we were talking about other things but told him that I thought he was right about us not working and it would be best being friends. he said we would work out if he put more of an effort in, he knows it's a relationship I'm interested in and not a casual fling. he hasn't replied since me saying about us being friends. Plus what am I meant to think if he didn't put 'any effort in' in the first place?
I don't know what to make of it. I told him friends as we have mutual friends so I'll end up seeing him again. Also cos I had doubts about him because of how quickly he was mentioning sex and still mentioning it after me saying I wanted to take it slow. also there are pictures on a certain social network site of him kissing another girl over the weekend, which makes me think that maybe he didn't get lucky with that girl so he came back to me because he knows I was interested in him and thought he might get lucky with me instead. I like him but I've been hurt before. Plus the whole difference thing could easily be brought up again as an out. Reading this back and imagining it is a friend's situation, it would be obvious to me that he was only after one thing, but I think I just need someone to say what I did was right, or if it wasn't, what I should have done. Someone told me guys hate girls who pull out the 'friends' line. I don't hate this guy or anything - I purely would just like things to be as less awkward and drama-free as possible, as it is inevitable we'll see each other again at some point.
Do you think he was being genuine or am I right to have been cautious?