i got rejected AGAIN, i really need help in reading the signs

[jay0514]

i thought she liked me, just as i thought another girl liked me before,
i think i cleary have trouble reading the signs, or misinterpreting the friendly signs,
are there any typical signs that a girl gives if she either just likes me as a friend or really likes me....

[girl68]

I think THE most tell tale sign for younger girls is DO THEY ACT DIFFERENT AROUND YOU, than around other people.

[bloodtippedrose]

Lol I think thats the first time Ive seen the word "the" accentuated with caps all on its own

How young we talkin? When I was in 4th-8th grade I pretty much played coy and stupid with guys I liked or guys that I knew liked me. Even when they approached me Id play it cool and blow them off cuz I didnt want to seem desperate. What was I thinking?!

[girl68]

My version of young is 20 and younger.

I played coy to boys I liked too. I didn't play coy with those I didn't. Therefore I acted different to boys I liked and those I didn't.

[bloodtippedrose]

Man.. come to think of it I cant attribute much to this thread.. after 9th grade I stopped playing the silly little games where I wait for guys to approach me and I approached them! worked like a charm. So to the guys that liked me but i didnt like back, they would know it by me not asking them out -_- So what you need to do is find a chick that is just like me, perfect... in every way.


jk

[jay0514]

17~18
i think its more harder if a girls flirty,
only last week she shook her ass at me. come on, really, who does that,

[bloodtippedrose]

wtf? shook her ass? I guess I cant talk, I used to think 'humping' my friends was funny.
At that age though idk.. maybe she knows you like her and is just being a tease?
you really cant judge a girl by her flirting cuz we sometimes flirt just for attention.. If a chick was digging you she'd try to be around you all the time and be intrigued by what you had to say

[girl68]

She probably shakes her ass at lots of guys which means she isn't acting any different around you!

So it would have been a good sign if she ONLY shook her ass at you or she shook her ass at everyone BUT you.

Girls like the ass shaker are in it only for attention. She baited you and you took the bait.

[Nice Lover Boy]

Some girls around that age have already been or done crazy stuff with guys. Whatever or however she is acting around you is just a tease which makes you think she likes you.