Understand bankers are supposed to be rational and analytical, but I am really out of my mind after meeting this girl.
This communication & journalism girl is a “perfect” girl for a hard working ass-kissing banker (at least for now…) She accepted to go out with me after we met once before (it was my farewell party with my previous firm, so I invite many friends to come down. Thinking it’s always good to have pretty girls joining us, I invited her, but to my surprise she readily accepted my invite).
Everyone was drinking a bit high at that night, but not totally out of our mind. I didn’t seduce her or expected anything (on the contrary, my friends were trying to hook her all the time). But we were end out being together that night (due to mutual attraction I guess?)
It was awkward the next day, but wasn’t that bad. This time she asked me out. But being a badass I am, I invited my other friends to come along (WTF, didn’t know what I was thinking back then…) Feel this became the turning point for our relationship, and after this I just feel something is wrong.
Due to my banker’s insecurities nature, I would text her (sometimes many messages) if I invite her out. However, gradually she began to neglect my sms…trying calling her not picking up…also not calling back from her after that (she will definitely be fired at my division if she never calls back any miscalls).
Understand not responding equals to “hey dude, I am not interested in you”, but I just don’t understand why she would do that. Really want to make up for this, I knocked her door talking to her face-to-face. Asked her out for coffee tonight, and she was cool with it though she was just back from hiking during the day. When I texted her tonight, I the prompt reply of “sorry, way too tired. Next time.” (There is even no f**king question mark or exclamation mark at the end?!)
Can someone enlighten me on this? Probably she was just looking for those one-night experiences, but I do want to know more about her before I can make further decisions – I just have the flush for no reasons. Could somebody advise me on what should I do next? Thanks so much!