Long distance dilemma

[sazz]

Its a silly situation but i am the only one i know in my friendship group with this situation and have no one to talk to about it.

I got with my boyfriend in june last year and it was great since he was home all the time over the summer and we are really close from it but sadly he had to move back to his flat and currently lives about an hour away from me as he is in Uni an we've been having a long distance relationship since september last year. Its been hard since i only get to see him weekends then he goes back and its been a skype/phonecall situation. Its been working well though and its made us stronger but now he has 2 weeks left and hes home again but this time its for good since hes finished his degree and Uni has ended.

This sounds stupid but im just unsure how to go back to a full relationship, by that i mean not just weekends to see eachother but a full week. Im unsure how often to see him and whats to much and should we scrap the routine were currently working at and just see him as much as i can, as much as we would love that we dont want to see too much of eachother. I just need some help on whats best for a situation going from weekends to all the time. thanks xo

[smackie9]

It would be best to discuss this with him. Suggest picking a few nights out of the week for you both to go do your own thing with friends...you know girls night out or guys night out. Good communication is key to keeping a relationship healthy. Make sure you tell him that you are not pushing him away or are losing interest, but you just want to keeps at a healthy balance and to not to kill the romance by seeing each other too much. Whatever you two decide, things will adjust fine.

[devonbrown]

I concur with smackie. Talk it through with him. He may be wondering the same things. There are no hard or fast rules about this sort of thing, it is just what the two of you are comfortable with.

Good luck.