i need a females advice on this.

[Agentsmith]

I posted this in another forum as well. but i would really like a females advice and i just need some advice soon before this gets worse. I need help. I have been dating my girlfriend Rosa for a little over a month. things started out fine, then got a little rocky. she didnt talk to me for a week. and i was still getting to learn about her. i had no idea why she wasnt talking or answering when i would message her. so my friend was like "hey come down and hang out" so we did and i ended up drinking with him and these 2 girls. and i ended up making out with one of them. mind you i had no idea if my gf was really interested or what was going on. once i sobered up i said to myself "im with Rosa, what the hell did i just do?" i havent told her this yet. and some people say i should and some say i shouldnt. well the other girl that was there at my friends house who was drinking with us and knows about this, now his a crush on my gf. and my gf does like both genders. she says she loves me. and when we are together its great. but when we arent, it seems like she forgets about me. she wont call me, message me or anything. unless i do first. now this girl is telling me that my gf told her something but she cant tell me what it is. so now im worried and feel like im becoming ill. i really need help. thanks

[spiritofjosh]

Sorry but I'm not a female, but if you ask me it seems like she could of been up to the same thing as you. I would tell her and tell her why. Tell her she's sketchy and doesn't act like you're dating and you didn't know what was up, so you went and did what you did. It would be silly for you to treat her as a girlfriend and be treated like a minor acquaintance from her side and expect to still be loyal to her. I'm not saying you should of kissed somebody else but to me you were single, girlfriend's shouldn't just disappear like that.

[Agentsmith]

i totally agree. thanks.