I love my male friend, do I tell him? He has a gf :( heeelp

[Kjh498]

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[Kjh498]

Give me some advice!!!

[violingirl]

I can't imagine him not being in my life, he knows me so well, but his partner isn't well and they have Been together for 15 yrs.

His partner of 15 years is sick and you want to tell him you're in love with him? In this case, I'd recommend that you keep your feelings to yourself and just be his friend. If you can't do that, then you need to remove yourself from the situation and move on with your life. You're both attracted to each other, but you have to understand he has responsibilities toward his partner and it sounds to me like he plans to remain true to her.

[Kjh498]

She is not ill, sorry I didn't explain myself! She just has a few issues.

[smackie9]

He's no idiot, he knows how you feel about him. You guys are having an emotional affair and it seems that's all he wants. Basically he is having his cake and eating it too. Best to just back off and leave him alone until he can make up his mind.

[violingirl]

She just has a few issues.

Physically ill, mental problems, emotional issues. Whatever. It doesn't matter. He's not going to leave her for you. Sorry for being painfully honest, but I've been there.