Hi all:
I met a fantastic guy a couple of months ago through a dating site. He's in another city 2 hours from my town. We had a great e-mail exchange, then I was in his town for a convention and we had a great date. Nonstop laughing, holding hands, sharing stories, even a few smooches. He asked if I'd come back again and I said I could. Since then he's e-mailed me a few times but is not great about replying when I write to him. He did say he wasn't sure what we could do about the distance factor. I let him know I'd have no problem visiting him if he'd be willing to visit me... Anyway, last week he visited my profile a few times and even wrote to me 3x in one day: a nice "how are you?" then a nudge 7 hours later when I hadn't replied yet. I sent a reply that evening catching him up on my life, & he said, "Thanks for your wonderful message. More later..." but have heard nothing in the 4 days since then. WTF?! From another man this wouldn't bother me but I like him SO much...
SO question # 1 is... WTF??? He can nudge me for a reply after 7 hours but he won't write me back for 4 days? What's up with that?
Meanwhile, I've dated other guys but no sparkage. One interesting man set up a date with me but never followed through on details... 2 weeks in a row. SO question #2 is... if a guy is interested enough to seek me out & ask me out, why doesn't he actually want to get together?
ANyway, thanks for any insights into male brains at work here...
These are grown men, BTW. In their 40s...