I've just had a really good weekend with my GF, we've spent pretty mush all weekend together apart from Saturday cause she had to work.
There's been three times when we've been getting intimate and it's gone no where.
First one was Sunday night, we had some wine, got to the bedroom, started kissing, were mostly undressed then lay down on the bed, she then immediatly passes out and goes to sleep, leaving me feeling stupid.
Second one was Monday morning, I wake her up with a cup of tea and a cuddle, we've got all morning to lounge aroudn in bed, I try taking things further and she starts to cry saying she feels pressured ans he's a bad girlfriend for not wanting sex. I tell her it's fine, and I love her for much more thna just sex.
Monday night, we have a drink on teh way home from a lovely day out walking along the beach and then when we get home, we start kissing passionatly and she sask me for a full body massge with massage oil, which I do. Then as soon as I've finished, she gets up, going to the bath room, then goes to go to sleep without even saying good night. Now this is where I feel like an asshole. She notices that I'm not trying to sleep and am just lying there awake looking at her. she asks me what's wrong and I say "nothing really, I'm just being stupid and thought we weren't going straight to sleep", she then starts to cry again and asks if she's a bad girlfriend for not wanting sex, again, I say "no, look I'm really sorry, I'm being a shallow asshole and you should just ignore me".
now yes, this makes me sound like an asshole, but seriously, surely it's normal to want sex at some point over a four day holiday weekend with your GF isn't it? What should I do? I really do like sex but am worried that she hates it. She doesn't seem to hate it, and has really pushed for it in the past but this weekend just didn't seem turned on by me at all.