Was this meant for me?

[abn25]

Havent heard from a guy ive been dating for a few days which is so far "normal" for us, with that said, he txts me last nite asking if "im home for the nite"....i responded about 10min later and never heard back.
There was one other time when the same thing happened, sounded like he was asking me out and i said where then didnt hear back that nite??? Just starting to question this.

[a19drift]

Kinda sounds like he's getting busy. I would just flat out ask him, ''Hey, are you getting my texts, is there a reason you're asking, and would you like to maybe get together tonight?"

I'm still learning this little tidbit myself, but men won't tell you what's up until you ask.

This could be a schedule conflict, could be a mis-communication, could just be he's checking to see what's up. I don't suggest you wait around, and if this is normal for you then go about your business.
I know guys are supposed to answer here, couldn't help myself. Sorry gents.

[abn25]

I hear ya, really hard to get the guy lingo and whats going thru their heads at any given moment. So far have not said anything, figure i'll wait till i see him to gage his response...

[eliot]

I'm still learning this little tidbit myself, but men won't tell you what's up until you ask.

Haha thats so true

why not ring him up ? harder to do but more mature then texting at this kind of situation...

Good luck