Never Too Late?

[NooB_JG]

Let me start out by saying I'm 22 year old guy. I have NEVER dated or ever been in a relationship, so I am complete dunce when it comes to these situations.

I have been wanting to ask this girl out in my class since the start of the semester. She's a cute shy girl who I cannot get off my head. However, previous rejections and failures have left me with low self confidence. I'm not sure whether this girl likes me or not. She sat next to me every single time. We made a lot of eye contact and talked maybe twice through the semester. I have one more chance to approach her. Next Tuesday is my final for that class and I really want to ask her out after the exam. I don't even know what do say! Is it weird to even approach her out of nowhere on the day of the final? I'm just afraid that I might hesitate once more and lose out on a cute girl that might actually like me. Am I just a loser over thinking this situation?

[wolfie91]

Maybe use the final as an excuse. Start up a conversation like you're glad it's over, it was easy/hard, or whatever, and then once you've got her talking maybe you can get your confidence up a little bit. There is no harm in asking =)

[Dune]

You are over-thinking.

Just relax and go for it (easier said than done I know). Which one would you regret more - You tried and got rejected, or you didn't try at all?

But hey, NO VENTURE, NO GAIN.

[NooB_JG]

Since we (students) can leave as soon as we finish our finals. Should I attempt to tell her before hand to wait for me after she finishes? Thanks ladies! =)

[shymaira]

Just be casual, and ask her what her plans are for the summer. See if she wants to get together sometime for drinks, and ask for her number. My only concern is that you spoke to her only twice before in the whole semester, so she may seem a bit surprised. Whatever the case, I would say just go for it, and no matter what happens, at least you tried. It takes guts to ask a girl out, so even if she rejects, at least you had some experience and focus on the good, not the bad. good luck.

[sadie_genie]

Oh God, you are just going to do everything last minute, aren't you? You should have built rapport sooner so she would get used to your company. Yes, it is a it weird for you to go up to her on finals and ask her out when you have just spoken to her two times! I know, I would find it weird. You can go ahead and ask but it is most likely to be a no unless you are very good looking. : (

[NooB_JG]

Well wish me luck. I'll let you all know what happens Tuesday. =)

[Archie]

Uhh, sorry, i know i`m speaking out of place, but i can`t let this slip. Don`t ask her out before the exam starts, If you do, you could pretty much ruin her and your concentration on the exam. Make a smart move, engage a conversation and politely ask for her number, it`s not wrong to do so. Then later when you`ve called her a couple times, texted her, when you think she`s used to you, atleast a little, then ask her out.

[NooB_JG]

Getting butterflies! =P

[NooB_JG]

Ladies, just want to say I did it earlier than expected. I saw her studying in the library today and decided to sit next to her and talk. We talked a lot and eventually asked for her number. I see her for the last time tomorrow =( Now a whole new set of questions. When should I text her and when would it be appropriate to ask her on a date? So happy right now!

[ChiaraSays]

Ladies, just want to say I did it earlier than expected. I saw her studying in the library today and decided to sit next to her and talk. We talked a lot and eventually asked for her number. I see her for the last time tomorrow =( Now a whole new set of questions. When should I text her and when would it be appropriate to ask her on a date? So happy right now!

text her and say. "So i just realized I'm not going to get to see you anymore. Maybe we can make up for lost time? " and suggest a date. be forward about it, she obviously likes you..

[NooB_JG]

So I talked to her today. She just left to work on the train. I walked her to the train station and before she walked away I asked her if she wanted to go hang out. Don't remember clearly but she said she had work 5 days a week. She'll get in touch with me and hit me up to let me know. I told her ok I'll text or call you. And we said goodbye. Is it me or did this go terrible? This morning started great we were making jokes and talked about her finals. Then I help her on her late assignment and don't know if it matters but she touched me once on shoulder. Overall, I'm disappointed. Should I even text her about how her last finals went on Friday? Should I even bother text her at all anymore?

[surfhb]

No way! Let her contact you. If a girl likes you, she will contact you.

She could not like you the way you want.....Who knows.

Dude! Ok ... Listen. Make a promise to yourself. You need to be asking a new girl like this out at least twice a week. Have so many numbers that you're confused on who's who. This is going to sound silly but there's a book called " how to be an alpha male". Pick it up if you want to understand male/ female dating rituals

I read it years ago and it changed the way I think for sure . One piece of advice was never take dating advise from a woman...lol

[NooB_JG]

No way! Let her contact you. If a girl likes you, she will contact you.

She could not like you the way you want.....Who knows.

Dude! Ok ... Listen. Make a promise to yourself. You need to be asking a new girl like this out at least twice a week. Have so many numbers that you're confused on who's who. This is going to sound silly but there's a book called " how to be an alpha male". Pick it up if you want to understand male/ female dating rituals

I read it years ago and it changed the way I think for sure . One piece of advice was never take dating advise from a woman...lol

Here I am trying to actually be in a relationship... I'll check that book out.

[surfhb]

You gotta date before you can be in a relationship bro! Date alot! Bang alot of girls and be picky! Find the hottest , smartest,sweetest girl you can find who loves you, first! Make sense!?