I've been seeing this guy for about a month and a half now- around 6 or 7 dates. We're certainly not exclusive, it's too soon, nor do I sense he's the relationship or serious type. He's 10 years older than me if that matters. He's a real gentleman, picks me up when we have dates and always drives me back home, he opens doors for me, always pays for dinner, walks me to my car and waits till I leave, etc. I figured that since he's in he's early thirties he has to at least be thinking about a relationship...not necessarily anything serious, but at least a relationship. Yet, I don't get that vibe in him, nor do we ever talk about "us". In between dates, he hardly ever calls or gets in touch- days go by without hearing a word, sometimes he initiates...sometimes I do. We had sex on our last date. So how do I bring this up without scaring him? I just want to know what he sees in me as of now. I want to know if he foresees something serious between us or just a fling.