How long do you wait between dates?

[Joe_Watson]

How long do you wait between dates before scheduling another one? It's just that I don't want to smother her. I want to be with her and give her space at the same time. Is it ok to ask for two dates in the same week or would that be too much? How long would you wait before asking her out again after your last date? If you would please share your opinions on this, that would help me very much. Thanks in advance.

[King Zarathu]

Only ask for the first one. Make sure she has the greatest time EVER. Then, just stop talking to her. If you did good, she'll come to you. Then, pretend like "Oh, I'm too busy to talk right now, let me call you when I have time." Then, whenever you DO manage to "have time" and call her, be in the middle of an EXCELLENT conversation and then say "hey listen I gotta go, got stuff to do" and hang up before she does

this will generate a SHITLOAD of attraction, and she'll want you like crazy.

[zas]

Oh dear, its supposed to be the other way round LTsK8er, are you female?

[Wojtek]

You can ask her for another date once more in few days after the last date took place. But don't keep continually on asking her for that. After the two dates, let her ask you for the next date. Just wait. You will like it, when she does so. It will be clear to you that she REALLY likes dating with you.

[King Zarathu]

Oh dear, its supposed to be the other way round LTsK8er, are you female?

heh.. no i'm a guy, but if he does that she'll be all over him. i'll bet money on that, she'll think about him and be like and he'll look at her pussy and be like

[LucidDream]

Heh, another mature reply, by our most mature member

[emanresu]

Heh, another mature reply, by our most mature member

You must admit, the immaturity of experience with some of these things get's at some fundamental things, however. Isn't it pretty much true that women often get turned off by lots of attention (the perceived need for them) and often feel more interested in those that don't really seem to need them? LTsk8er seems more right than wrong on these things, though a little extreme (out of his own sense of humor, it seems)

[King Zarathu]

Dude--this is totally true. I dare you, do this just to experiment some things:

Go out and meet Girl A. Now, call Girl A twice a day--wait no--only once every day. Buy her dinner, talk to her about your job, make it sound all coooool n stuff.. Take about the same ol' shit guys talk to girls about on dates, complement her, tell her how beautiful she is.

Go out and meet Girl B. Now, call Girl B ONE TIME, and make it a VERY good phone call, where you have her laughing and giggling, but then right when it's really good and she's having the most fun, say that you gotta go. WHEN Girl B calls YOU (the previous step makes this happen), say that you're too busy to talk and to call you later. When she calls you later, answer with "Hello? Oh, hey, you can't get enough of me can you?" Arrange a date ONLY IF she doesn't do it first. Then, talk about things that no other guy would dare talk about. For example, if she wants to ask "what do you do for a living?" you would say something like "I'm a porn model." or "I'm one of the guys in the movie that shows the director my naked ass to keep him in a good mood." After she laughs she'll ask "no really" and you'll answer "yes! seriously SOMEBODY has to do it, don't they?" Then, keep your self-esteem sky high, be very COCKY, and be able to walk away from her for a few minutes to get be by yourself (which shows independence).


Money says you get several blowjobs from Girl B within the first month.

[LucidDream]

Yeah, I'll agree to an extent. I'm just laughing at his humor :p

[King Zarathu]

I'm so immature aren't I?

Oh, btw, LucidDream, I love that picture in your signiture--that's kick ass!

[LucidDream]

which one? I think there's five

[King Zarathu]

they're all nice

[LucidDream]

Thanks