Bollox is all I can say to this
I ended it with my GF / Partner tonight. On her Birthday / Mothers day .... bummer, wish it could have been any other day.
So I'm at her home, she's gone to dinner with her ex (who she has a 9 year old) for mothers day . No issue with that.
So I go to log in to another site on the laptop which I went on earlier and hit the recents site list and a dating site is on the list, so I go to history to see when it was accessed and it was last week, so I clicked the list of sub pages accessed and there was a link to login, search strings and her inbox and profile
I'm just looking at the screen going WTF!!
So I just left a note on her laptop saying goodbye, you don't deserve me and got in the car and drove off. Suddenly thought opps, maybe I'm jumping the gun here, maybe she had a friend over and they were checking her account. So back to her place, remove said note and waited for her.
In she comes happy as larry to see me, we went into the back yard for a cigarette and I said don't want to bum out your birthday but I need to ask you something .. who is xxxxxx (Profile name) so she asks why?
So I explained that I had come across RSVP when I was trying to find another site in the history and noticed that she has an active profile
Turns out she has had a live profile for over 3 months and has been chatting to guys on the sites email
I asked why and all she could say was something was missing, she does love me but she's finding it hard to fully commit
So I just said well I guess you don't need to worry about it anymore, gave her her key back and left
What a waste of 18 months !!! fark I'm so pissed, I tried to end it back in January but she said it was just some issues she was going through because of her dog, all the time she was looking for someone else whilst at the same time telling me she loves me and how great I am.
Totally farken pissed off!! I feel so so stupid