Radical Changes

[AZDave]

Hello everyone,

So much of the information one can research on the internet seems too general, and I end up with more questions than answers. My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for more than three years. Recently, we've started seeing quite a bit more of each other; Every day, as opposed to two or three days a week. In that time ( past three months ) her personality has changed quite a bit. We used to be in equal footing in conversations, now she dominates every conversation, interrupts my sentences and thoughts frequently, etc. The problem goes further. She feels the need to tell me how to do everything, and correct my actions. I've made split second decisions in life threatening situations, and now suddenly I need to be told how to get out of a parking lot! In our sex life, the frequency has dwindled, and oral sex from her is a thing of the past.

I'm really having a hard time with this, but every time I try to discuss it with her, she turns on me instantly, and tells me how wrong I am for even thinking any of these thoughts. Then, I'll hear for days afterward how wrong I am, and how right she is. She has done some great things in her life, and known some prominant people, but reminds me at leat twice a week of who ashe's known, and how great she is. Sorry to get long winded, but even typing the words is causing me to vent.

[smackie9]

LOL! whoa just wait til you get married. This is reality hun. It's instinctive for a women to be in charge for she will be running a household, raising children and controlling the finances. Married men joke that once you get married you never have to make another decision again lol....sounds like your GF is having a quick start. As for sex, yes the oral does go by the way side. I had a coworker talk to me in confidence about it...same deal, no more oral. And as for sex, after about 2 years things do slow down...it's very normal.

As for your GF's aggressive behaviour, she is very unhappy in your relationship. If you are unable to communicate with her and you have tried everything, try suggesting you break up with her and see how that goes....that just might shut her up and finally listen to you.