Here's our back story, We started dating 7 months ago we lived an hour apart. She moved into my parents house with me 6 weeks ago, not due to an ultimatum but the fact she wanted to get out of her house and hated her job. The first week was great and she seemed to be getting acclimated great.

The second week she went back home to spend a few days with her mom and tell her dad that she has moved in with me(Her parents are divorced and her dad and her have a terrible relationship). During this time her dad told her that he's moving far away to a different state in 6 weeks.

After that moment everything changed, she became very depressed and stopped looking for a job and never left the house or my room for that matter. I am a very emotionally available guy and asked her everyday what was wrong and if she wanted to talk to which she didn't and ended up getting mad at me for constantly asking. So i backed off but the depression got worse( she has struggled with depression in the past and was on meds until this past January). She also seemed to become very emotionally unavailable and didn't show the little signs of intimacy she once did and gave me one word answers 90% of the time the last week.

The last week I barley saw signs of the person i fell in love with except for a few hours a day. Last Friday she said she couldn't get better here and needed to be around people who have known her for her whole life. I understood completely and understand depression bc I struggled with it myself in the past. i said well we can still do the weekend thing bc I love you and want to be there for you. After about 15 "I don't knows by her", she finally says right now I can't be in a relationship bc I like to be able to give 100% into a relationship and you don't deserve to not have me there for you which I can't be right now.

The last thing she says is we can meet up in a few weeks bc she left some things at my place that I want to give back to her. A side note is we are 24 and 23 years old, and we had sex 2 days before she left(wish to me shows she must still have an attraction to me, maybe not?) and we got along GREAT the whole time except for her depression really keeping her down.

We even came back from a couples vacation just 8 days before we broke up that went great. My questions are. I still love her and just want the person back that I fell in love with and want her to let me in a help her through her tough times. We have been in no contact for a week and it's so hard.

Should I reach out to her? or give her the 2 weeks and then reach out? Does anyone have any experience with depression in a partner and what to do? The reason i'm struggling so much is because of how we got along so good and never really had a falling out. If it had been months of fighting and not getting along then I could take it like a man and realize that we just don't get along,but thats not the case here. I don't understand how she can just let all this go especially when I was so open about accommodating her needs about being there for her and going back to dating weekends.

TIA everyone for your responses I'm just really struggling because this break up is so unlike any other's I've been through in the past.