Originally Posted by
BackUpOrGetStng
Don't bother giving her space. Break up with her and tell her you want to move on. If your relationship has any chance, it will be from you cutting her off and chasing other girls, not pining and waiting for her to come back.
See, i dont believe this tactic works. Me and my ex had a huge fight and i said i just wanted to be away from him for a while, concentrate on myself and surround myself with friends to relieve the stress. It should have just been a clean break but i loved him alot and i didnt want to lose him. So while i am at home one night, having a quiet night to myself to collect my thoughts and feelings, i hear my 'boyfriend' is out chasing girls at the bar, hitting on other women and a girl was trying to kiss him. To me that wasnt cool.. at all.
I broke it off with him as hard as it was, but to me, him chasing after other girls showed he didnt give a sh*t. Why would any self respecting girl chase after a guy who she cares about who is mindlessly chasing others not giving a damn about how u feel? It works to get girls jealous that way but not to get a girl back.
Showing you have a life, going out and having fun with friends makes me want a man, a man that doesnt dwell on things and can go out and enjoy himself and show hes not completely fixated on me is what i like.
That just wouldnt work for me. Id wait to chase other girls until you are completely over and no chance of getting back.
Although i agree, she has probably made up her mind about you. A woman with feelings for a man doesnt genuinely want to 'take a break' unless its for a good reason. So i would try forget about her and concentrate on your own happiness and needs. Dont contact her, show your not too hung up on her and then if you get no feedback then move on. Then chase other girls. lol
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