Attraction & Love

[InLoveWithLovin]

Hello,
I would like to share my story and get some encouragements about my next steps. I'm 27 years old, never had issues with finding girls, about 3 years ago I met an amazing women (22 years old), we could talk forever on the phone and chatting. The problem was that she was obese. We stopped talking, and then after 6 months I met her again by accident, she lost about 25 Kilograms!! She looked amazing, we were together for 2.5 years.
After about 6 months after we hooked together, she gained back the weight she previously lost and we stopped having sex. We were completely in love with each other and we kept on going while she tried to lose the over weight.
We were so frustrated, With all my love for her, I couldn't make love to her because I wasn't attracted to her.
Yesterday we thought about our next actions and it was decided that we should go separate ways .
All day long I cried (and also she cried), I feel stupid. When we talked she told me that we're like friends, we're not like a couple.
But truly in my heart I want her, I want to live with her, I want her to have children with me, I'm in love with all my heart.
I feel like I realized something... that I was so stupid for letting this happen, I lost the love of my life and I caused her so much pain... I'm a wrack and I feel like I need to grow up and realize that physical attraction < love. I realized that it's not important at all!! I can see beyond that now, and ohh I wish she will take me back. What should I do?? Please help me!

[InLoveWithLovin]

I AM serious!! I never been serious in my life!! I don't care how much she weight now, I want her entire body now. The problem is she don't know how could she feel free with me now..

[Cinnabella]

I guess everyone make mistakes in life, just try to comfort her and make her feel that you love her no matter what! Make her feel confident again. A lot of works I think. But, try!

[deepika_16]

No problem. You have understood what mistakes you have done in your life. You are in deep love with that girl and you don't have any problem with her being obese. I think that girl also loves you a lot, she went away from you only because you were not happy with her when she put on weight. But now that you have understood what real love means she will definitely be yours forever. Just approach her and have a talk. When you will express your unconditional love for her she will come back. Just don't think too much and go. Time does not wait for any one.

[InLoveWithLovin]

The problem is now that she doesn't want to go back to a relationship with me because she's not 100% sure I have changed. I know I changed and I told her that... She's just doesn't want to get hurt again and be in a place where it's not good for her. I understand why she feels this way to be honest... But what can I do???? I know she needs space right now but I think about her all the time!!! and I think about all my life that I lived in a big lie. How couldn't I see beyond that???? How stupid I was!! I feel ashamed Please help me

[InLoveWithLovin]

yes. I just got back from some friends, and you know what I realized? that It's not only my lost!! It's also her lost!! I gave a lot from myself to her!!! I loved her with all my heart!! I did a lot to our relationship, yes, I agree that in the intimate realm I wasn't but I did loved her and cared for her. here are 2 examples, one of the movies I did for her for her birthday, yes I know it's in Hebrew, if you want translation I can provide it if you ask. The second one I did for no reason at all!!! I did a lot for her!!!

I can't post links yet so take this ID's for youtube and add that after the "?" on youtube links: "watch/?<ID>

ID1: v=w-BphnCBKPg
ID2: v=2nEnPWyyxsI

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What do you think?