Hi,
Feel pretty silly here but thought I would try and put my mind at rest with other peoples opinions.
Some time ago my wife and I discussed going on a cruise, we were both apprehensive not having done this before but we agreed it would be good fun to do together, well recently my wife found a great deal on a cruise package but as I am out of holidays at work she decided to go with girlfriends...initially I felt OK with this but as time goes on I am getting more and more annoyed that she went without us.
Earlier in our relationship we had discussed holidaying alone and both agreed we should holiday together, now this is the second time she has gone away without me - last year she went to Bangkok with her mum and brother. Again somewhere I would have liked to visit.
The reason I dont have any holidays is that I am a englishman in australia and every second year I travel back to the UK to visit family....can I just add this is no holiday and my wife will not accompany me even though I would like her too.
I guess my issue is, should she have gone on a cruise without me? what happens with single girls on a cruise (do I have anything to worry about)?? and should I now organise my holidays without her??
Feel free to tell me if I am being silly or if I have valid reasons to feel the way I do....annoyed, deserted and generally left out.
Regards
Rokkitt