does he like me?

[iamminzy]

I met this guy at the club last year and he was hitting on me . He also tried to ask for my number but I didn't give it to him because at that time I was shy and I didnt know him either. But I realized that he was my friends that I barely talk to. His friend asked me if I was single and whether I would like a boyfriend or not. He eventually added me on Facebook and then I invited him to my b- day party and clubbing. He got my number and everything. At the club he petted my hear because I didn't feel good from the drinks u had.

After I broke up with my ex we talked a little bit and in January he asked me out and i went out with him. At first I though he was boring and annoying but the date turned out pretty ok. We wet bowling with his friends and had a good time. He asked me out couple times but I didn't give him a direct response. So he never asked . I was actually dating another guy though.

But anyways I asked him to go clubbing last week and he went. He was petting me on the head And giving me cute looks and kept Dancing in front of me and I kinda push away playfully while I was dancing with a guy. He kept trying to protect me from guys and he always helped me when I needed his help to brush off the guys. I give him this look and he knows what to do.

I just don't know if he likes me or not cuz we don't talk that much but when we see each other he's different and he treats me really nice. I been hinting him but either he's shy doesnt get or he's not interested in me or he's just slow.

The funny thing is he went out with my friend at 3am in the morning to buy groceries n they only met once and I feel that he likes her or something. How to get him to notice me? I guess it because I didn't show interest in him so he thinks im not interested but how do I get his attention?

He called her too... and he texted me? if we were doing anything on friday. And he only met my friend like twice

[Thinkalot]

From what you have said it sounds like he does like you, but thinks you don’t like him as you have pushed him away countless times. on top of this your dancing with other guys in front of him, proving to him that you like him only has a friend. chances are he's a good friend and does not want to spoil it by asking you again and again.

Best advice is declare for feelings because you obviously do have them.

I wish you the best.

[iamminzy]

i know because i pushed him away now he told me he wants to ask my friend out and he only met her once... i wasn't feeling good cuz i had some alcohol so i didnt think about that but after i sobered up, i got pissed and jealous that he's giving my friend more attention,,, though he's still nice to me... and pets me on the head and still cares about me... but i just can't accept the fact that he wants to ask my friend out and we're gonna go clubbing 2m, the 3 of us... my friend knows that i like him cuz i told her... im not sure if she will be interested in him though...

but anyways, i got really pissed and i remained quiet cuz after we got food, my friend blurted out that she needed wood glue and then my friend said that he has some at home, n my friend said told him to drive her to his place.... n i thought that i was gonna be able to go, but then they agreed that I should go home cuz my parents will go crazy if i come home late again... I know they both mean well...

But I don't like how my friend is acting so close to him and he is my friend... and she goes out with him and spends all night talking and stuff and i bet when she at his place, they're gonna talk n talk and she's gonna go home like at 6 or 7am.... she's pretty hardcore and she's so lucky that her parents isn't on her case...

I really do like him though... he always ask me if I was ok and all, but i really don't want to tell my friend to back off from him and say he's mine... i don't wanna be a bitch cuz i know guys don't like that.,, i'll just leave as it is... but my heart is feeling uneasy and I really wanted to talk to him about my problems and get advice from him about guys... If i don't invite my friend then he be wondering why I didn't invite her and all... so iono what to do.. i wish i never introduce her to him... or agreed to go clubbing...

she is a really good friend and I can't do anything to step in between them if they do have something going on, but I am feeling very uneasy about it and my heart hurts and i'm pissed....

he's the only guy who understand a girls feeling... unlike the guy i dated these past few months who doesn't understand a girls feelings... i guess cuz im too quiet and shy and he's not, but I want him to see that I changed and that I'm pretty outgoing... I feel bad for rejecting his offers when he ask me to go places... cuz i was dating another guy at that time... i feel so stupid.... what should I do now? if he ends up with my friend, i be pissed and jealous and uneasy...

My friend is really hardcore and fun to hang out with, while I'm quiet... I really hate myself... I want to be just like her, not care what people say or think just say whatever i like... but I always worry will people hate me or find me annnoying.. I think too much about how other people think of me, so i don't do or say anything,... I am loser..,

[Thinkalot]

Now what i hear is quite simple psychology, the fact you in a way cant have him makes you want him more. when before you could have him and you did not want him as much.
If your serious about him then I would suggest you talking it over with your friend, see what she thinks. (hopefully its like my friend group they would understand you've know him longer and back off honourably).

Its really based on your intentions vs her intentions.

but its difficult here I think you’ll need to talk to your friend no matter what. Express your feeling honorarily beacuse its in these circumstances when you might end up loosing both.

[iamminzy]

oh my friend isn't a bitch and take hiim away from me, she just one of those types that like to have fun and pull all nighters and stuff, but she will never do something to hurt a friend. I known her since last year, but we been really close and share secrets and stuff. We're pretty close. and she knows i like him