BF wants sex without a protection/condom!

[dhjb]

me and my bf have always been having sex with a condom.I refuse taking pills and stuff like that so this is out of the question. Recently he started asking for doing it without a condom on. He says he want to feeel me intirely...in my mind ,id love to do it BUT i know the sensible thing is to wear a condom ...cuz in the moment of the heat he may not pull it out on time..How should I cope with the situation?Have you had experience with sex without a protection?

[sookie6]

well ifthe relationship becomes long term AND exclusive the sensible thing to do is to get HIV tested first of all (as it's very likely he's made the same demand before to is partners) and then to think about another contraception method...you need to seek medical advice for a profesional insight...be serious about it and you'll be fine.

[Mathias]

Use a condom. This isn't an option.

[CAM]

HIV isn't the only thing you could catch. Herpes is out there. And a whole lot of other nasty stuff.

Yeah, I had sex with two women without a condom. The first one, we got tested before hand. The second one she was tested (I wasn't). Anyway, it feels much nicer without a condom and I think it heightens the physical intimacy,

***That said, ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM.

[oldskool83]

wear the patch, its the pill in a decal form. works good.

[Inmanl]

It amazes me how one sided the idea of the pill is. There is also a contraceptive pill for men which causes arguably less side effects, if he wants to have sex without a condom why doesn't he take the pill?

[Mathias]

It amazes me how one sided the idea of the pill is. There is also a contraceptive pill for men which causes arguably less side effects, if he wants to have sex without a condom why doesn't he take the pill?

Because it's still in FDA approval stages.

[oldskool83]

id take somthing for sure yes...never heard of anything for guys lol.

[misombra]

It amazes me how one sided the idea of the pill is. There is also a contraceptive pill for men which causes arguably less side effects, if he wants to have sex without a condom why doesn't he take the pill?

if he misses one he's not the one who's gonna get pregnant.

[Archie]

Well, this might be out of place, but he can always get [URL="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy"]snipped[/URL] = no need for pills or condoms.
And it is reversable. Just putting that out there.

[surfhb]

Well, this might be out of place, but he can always get snipped = no need for pills or condoms.
And it is reversable. Just putting that out there.

You're either joking or entirely offering the most stupid advise Ive ever heard! LOL

[girl68]

Talk to your DR about different types of birth control but whatever you do use condoms until then.

[DoesntMatter]

Maybe you can have anal sex without a condom until you figure out something more permanent

[ShellyZ]

USE A CONDOM! The withdrawal method doesn't work; it has a 28% failure rate. Yes, there is a contraceptive pill for men, but it's not available yet. It's still in the FDA approval process. Even if you went on the pill (which you won't, so it's a non-issue), I would still recommend using a condom. I feel very strongly that birth control should not be 100% the woman's responsibility. Just the fact that your boyfriend is willing to take risks with your safety and health shows that he's selfish. If he cares about you, then he'll happily use a condom every time.

[Gratedwasabi]

You can get pregnant from pre-cum.. so even if he pulls out 100% of the time, you can still quite easily get pregnant.

Look at other birth control options or tell him too damn bad.