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    noooooooo why did i have to see this

    So I was in the area of my ex for work, and I figured I might as well drop off her stuff. Im near her house and who do i see.. her EX! So now I am all curious so i parked down the block (i know.... bad idea) He rang her doorbell and wiated on the stoop and she never came out.. he left her a letter or something on her car.. I wanted to grab that letter so bad.. but i knew that would be bad.. but yeah now my mind is RACING!

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    Sorry man. It will get better. I saw my ex and her new bf kissing and cuddling in our apartment. Man I went crazy. Anyway be strong and try to think about something else.

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    right but did she agree to meet him? did he just show up? whata in the letter.... damnit!

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    I think it''s a good sign she didn't even answer the door. It's possible that he just showed up.

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    yeah, I agree with confusious..

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    that would be odd tho no? i really wish i saw what was in that letter... who just randomly shows up to an ex girlfriends house to talk about things.. usually its an agreed upon time and location no?
    Last edited by DarkHelmet82; 21-05-11 at 02:52 AM.

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    Well isn't that you were about to do yourself?

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    not to talk.. i was gonna just leave the stuff at the door.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 View Post
    that would be odd tho no? i really wish i saw what was in that letter... who just randomly shows up to an ex girlfriends house to talk about things.. usually its an agreed upon time and location no?
    He may have some unrational thinking going on as well. Hoping to surprise her with a sappy love letter in hopes that everything will be explained in writing and she'll come running back to him. Bad move on his part, for sure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by that one guy View Post
    He may have some unrational thinking going on as well. Hoping to surprise her with a sappy love letter in hopes that everything will be explained in writing and she'll come running back to him. Bad move on his part, for sure.
    yeah but my mind is thinking about all the possibilities.. im not a stalker so Im not gonna go back and find out.. but things that go through my head

    1. she agreed to meet up with him and just overslept (she likes to sleep)
    2. she agreed to meet up and changed her mind
    3. he just randomly showed up
    4. she wasnt home
    5. she didnt hear the bell
    6. She decided to go and meet him now, and just wasnt ready.

    according to his facebook page (yes but please no lectures on this.) he wrote "today is going to be one of the best days of my life. I get to prove I am who I say I am." sounds to me like they had agreed to meet, and that he thoiught he could win her back....

    This is some advice kids.. dont try to do any private investigating through facebook... its just spells trouble...
    I wish i hadnt gone over there to drop off her things.. (i still have them too.)
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    i feel like my head is about to explode

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 View Post
    i feel like my head is about to explode
    You should write one of those letters that never gets sent.

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    Across the street, there was probably a third ex watching both of you with binoculars. And she was inside, busy with a fourth ex.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    What's in the letter!!!!!!!

    I know that feeling

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    Heh, this is the reason why I stay clear from areas I know my ex(s?) wander. Even if I aknowledge my feelings and emotions it doesn't stop me from going all the way back to the caveman-stage. "MY WOMAN, URGH!" Plus days after days of going through "what if"-scenarios...

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