Hi,
I’m currently in serious relationship with a girl that does not live with me. She is such a wonderful person and i truly love her. Recently we have been discussing getting married, moving in together and starting a family. It appears that she is quite particular about the type of accommodation we live in (e.g up market). She is currently working but doesn't want to when we're together because she's looking to focus on raising a family. The problem is my present income isn’t sufficient enough to get the type of house she's looking for. This may change as i'm about to complete my undergraduate degree and hope to secure a professional career. However, i explained to her that there is no guarantee that i'll be able land a high earning job. This made her feel very insecure about our future together. She has told me that there's no reason why someone can't do well if their focused and driven. In other words, she would like me to be more ambitious.
I don’t know if im just a hopeless romantic but all i need is for her to be with me. She has apologised for being so hard to please and will try to overcome this. But i really don’t want someone to feel like their making a sacrifice to be with me. I'm worried that this issue will resurface in the future.
Am i over analysing? I’m starting to wonder if she truly loves me. What should i do guys?