ya ive tried the face to face before and nothing came out right and she kept giving me the same responce. I deff been sincerie with her all this time. Shes just holding onto her past. If she truly cared she would of put up the effort to at least try and commit. I dont need that. At least I know now we both dont share the same feelings and the wool isnt pulled over my eyes anymore. Im sure someday Ill find someone that isnt damaged and respects the love i give them. Im done on here. Good luck to all of you! Im sure Ill be on here again when I find my next failed relationship. I know one thing...if someone breaks up with me Im just gonna let it go. Its not worth the pain and heartache.