Starting to think im not ready..Any useful input?
I have been broken up with my ex for a few months. I was devastated at first.. I wanted to honestly kill myself. Sounds absolutely stupid when i say it like that.. But i just didnt want to feel that pain anymore.
After a week or so, i felt a little better. Things started to make more sense of why it was happening, why it needed to end. I was so sick of hurting it started to feel relieving that i was shut of him.
I saw him a few times. One time was sad for me.. he was absolutely wasted. Out of his mind on drugs and was watching me.. He gave me this half hearted smile and as i walked past he said i 'looked good'.
I thought seeing him was going to pull me back under his control but surprisingly it didnt. I felt great!
I met a guy a little later on and things went really well. He was always the one to contact me first. He sent me flowers, text me nice little messages. We started to get closer and closer and after a month i slept with him. I think big mistake on my behalf.. Even though he never seemed to lose feelings or lose touch, i started to worry about little things. I started to really like him and i didnt like how i felt at all.
Then for the past week, he has been more distant than usual. Still contacting me, but hasnt asked me to hang out or anything. I havnt really made a move to contact or bug him. But i still feel he isnt as 'into me' as before.
Now this is happening, i am beginning to miss my ex more
My ex texts me now and then, sometimes angry texts, sometimes nice texts and before i wouldnt bother replying. But lately i have been. Now i feel way worse and i want to slap myself for being so stupid. I felt so proud to be getting over him and now im ruining it and i cant stop it.
I jumped into something else too fast didnt i?
I didnt want to wait and lose something that could have been possibly potential as i felt it was with the new guy i met.. But now i see i should have..
Has anyone felt similar to this? Any advice or input?
I knew these bad stages would come after my breakup.. But i didnt think they would be so confusing and hurtful.
I feel overall worthless and rejected right now..
Thanks for taking the time to read.
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