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Thread: Have you guys ever left someone and felt regret later?

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    Have you guys ever left someone and felt regret later?

    For example, you guys fought so much, and it started to get worse, and you guys broke up in a bad condition. But the happy times were very happy, and you moved on and dated other girls but you can't forget them and think your ex was still the best that had happenned to you? But you were the one who left her... Just wondering about this.

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    You always remember the good times, and the bad times seem to slip away.

    That's why people get back together. That's why it's usually a mistake.

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    Cinnabella! You are reminiscencing about your ex again. Please stop allowing yourself to continue being weak and obsessive. I know it is not easy because I have gone through something similar. The best way to get over an ex is start dating other guys.

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    I never regretted leaving, because it just gets to a point where you want your freedom so you can breath again.

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    Yes, I thought I could find "better", left constantly searching.

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    ive always been dumped so i cant answer it for ya.. lol

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    No. By the time I'm ready to leave somebody, there is zero doubt left in my mind about the relationship needing to end. If anything, I regret that I didn't end some of those past relationships sooner.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    I felt regret when i duped a girl for no really good reason. I was attracted to her, she was too, but at the time i was quite young, not saying i`m old, and i just wasn`t ready for a relationship, guess you could say i was scared. I regret because i didn`t even try to to have a relationship with her.
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    Once.

    I know in my heart of hearts that leaving her was no mistake, but I do have regrets about what might have been. OTOH, she was the one that I talked to my wife about when I met (wife was a married very good friend at the time) because she was very intriguing.

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    Yep, my ex.

    I dumped her and often regret it even though I know it was the right thing to do.

    I've never dumped someone I was still in love with before.

    I should have just stayed with her and resented her to the point I didn't like her anymore and then dumped her. I'd be feeling a lot better for it now

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    No.

    If I was the one doing the breaking up, I had a good reason for it. It was never a choice I just did on a whim, I gave it some thought first. Then I would never look back. Sometimes it would even be a feeling of relief.

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    no. I have always been the dumper, I never ever regretted it, because I always tried my best to make it work. I do regret having stayed married too long to someone incompatible, but at least I have no regrets that I lost her. She is even with a new guy that she says is great for her and I am happy for her. I do feel sorry for him though.

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    i ended things not so cool with this one girl. we had a wild nice nite. went to bed, i woke up at the crack of 6am after going to bed at 3 or 4am i think. woke up all like this is not right i gotta go. threw my shit in a backpack, looked for paper to say sorry i left i cant do this but didnt find any...so i jetted and texted her. yeah it was shitty but i couldnt do it anymore. i regret ending it the way i did, but i was not gonna wait around til lunch time to try and have a talk.

    besides that im happy with my wanting to get outta that relationship, i dont regret that im out, just how i did it.

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    Is it hopeless to think that my now ex - who dumped me last night - will begin to remember all of my great qualities given a little time? We've had problems recently, which I think is why he dumped me. I'm not really hoping for a reconciliation, but I am wondering whether, at some point, he will begin to remember me as the loving, sweet girlfriend who satisfied him - as he told me not so long ago - completely, in every way. I don't want him to remember me always for my flaws, which showed themselves, distinctly, in our recent arguments... I'm hoping, in time, he'll gain a more objective view, and perhaps even miss me a little for the great things that I did bring to his life while we were together. Or is that just wishful thinking?

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    No. I'd leave that someone only for 2 reasons:
    1. Cheated on me. (never happened)
    2. I'm convinced it's a mistake and that we aren't meant for each other.

    Either way I'm not going back with her. No regret.

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