Well, Ive been dating with this woman for about a year now. We had our honeymoon phase for about 5 months. After that things started going south. I need help because this relationship means a lot to me.
She is constantly criticizing and judging me. I have told her that it bothers me when she does that and it also hurts me. When I tell her how I feel her response is either one or all of the following:
I did not do anything.
You are just imagining.
I dont know what you are talking about.
You should see what is wrong with you.
You are arguing. I dont want to talk to you anymore.
I will not allow you to verbally abuse me.
When can we have entertainment?
She then gets upset and leaves more like flees away. She does not acknowledge how I feel let alone take responsibility for her actions. She shows no remorse for her actions. When I stress what she did was wrong and ask her to apologize she says one or all of the following:
Yeah call me an evil bitch.
Listen I will not be abused by your arguing. So Im going to leave you here.
Is this how you entertain yourself?
These responses make the situation even worse. How could a loving woman turn into such unemphatic person? Im perplexed at her responses. I have threatened to leave the relationship but she says "I dont need anyone".
How do I best handle the situation and get her love back?