Is five months still too early?

[d_pipa]

My boyfriend and I have been together for five months, and we have had our ups and downs. We constantly argued. He's 19 and I'm 23.

Two nights ago, we had an argument and I told him that I think we should be over. He agreed. But later on, we talked about it and he said he doesn't love me. He likes me a lot, that's all. I admitted to him that I love him (he is my first boyfriend).

He had bad past - he had five EXs, some of them cheated on him and they all dumped him.

He said to me he thinks that I am love-blind, because I have got same symptoms as him when he was love-blind. That freaks me out. I don't think I am, the answer is simple: I love him.

Even harder, we stopped having sex two and half months ago. He kept refusing when I requested for it. I asked him last night why, he said it is nothing with me and he is happy enough without sex. I know he wouldn't cheat on me, he is different and really is trustworthy. That's why I liked him at first, he's so innocent.

Like I said we constantly argued, that affects us. So we agreed that we will try for last time, because it would be pointless.

What do you think? Do you think 5 months is still too early?

Thanks for reading.

[Mathias]

Too early for what, exactly?

[d_pipa]

For him to get in love with me... It sounds stupid.

[Mathias]

For him to get in love with me... It sounds stupid.

Given the fact that you argue constantly, and broke up twice, I don't think this is love.