my boyfriend and i are going on almost 10 months now. obviously we're past that dating stage where we're all giddy around each other and the romance has gone down. however, we only have sex maybe once every 2 weeks and it really bothers me b/c I'm the one whose always initiating it and he always rejects me and tells me that his too tired. truth is, he's told me it's b/c his gained weight and he just can not have sex anymore without feeling like his going to have a heart attack (plus he always drinks and smokes) his only 26 and i'm 20 so i don't think it's really normal to be like this already - most guys my age always want to have sex.
is this a reason for me to leave him? it really bothers me and i can't imagine marrying someone who is going to be like this forever. i think sex is really important in a relationship and it sometimes makes me feel like he isnt attracted to me anymore b/c we're always together.